Barbie Goes Domme: A First-Timer’s Kinky Encounter

Hey everyone! Today’s blog is all about a kink booking and what it’s like to be the provider offering that service. I know you all enjoy getting a peek behind the curtain with the stories I share about my bookings with a variety of clients. Since I’m currently working from my home location, testing out my skill set is a bit easier for me. I have access to more tools and toys, which makes each booking that much more fun and creative!

But here's a little secret—I've always dreamed of being a dominatrix. If you’ve ever watched the Netflix show Bonding, I’ll admit that it’s been on my bucket list to achieve something similar. And let me just say, I’m impatient about it. One of my regular clients once said to me, “You’re still in your cute, everyone wants to do you phase. Once you’re older, you’ll definitely get booked for dominatrix sessions.”

Hearing that is a nice confidence booster—it makes me feel like I’ll have a career in this industry for years to come. But sometimes, I want it now! The excitement of wanting to fully embrace the dominatrix role is real, and I’m always working towards it.

Taking My Wins and Looking Forward to More

Alas, I’ve learned to take my wins where I get them, and I am incredibly appreciative of every client who chooses to spend their time with me. Each experience, each session, is an opportunity to grow and expand my skill set. I'm grateful for it all—whether it's a casual booking or something more specific that helps me refine what I offer.

The Saucy Side of My Journey

Now, here’s where the saucy part comes in. Before transitioning into full-service work, I spent quite a bit of time as a stripper (for those of you who didn’t know). During those years, I was often asked to spank clients as part of the show, especially during bucks parties. It became something of a signature move, and honestly, I enjoyed it—it was fun, playful, and very much part of the experience.

However, since moving into full-service work, I hadn’t had the opportunity to explore that side of my role again. That is, until recently…

The Moment I’ve Been Waiting For

Well, this week was finally my week. I was booked for a dominatrix session, and I couldn’t have been more excited. It was a big moment for me, and I was ready—thrilled, even—to be trusted with such an intimate experience.

This is where the real learning begins for anyone wanting to engage in kink services. My client, a beautiful man, was clearly nervous and inexperienced, and I could sense that he was hesitant to fully admit what he was into. This made my job a bit more challenging because consent is everything. Even if you book me for a dominatrix session, it’s crucial to me that you are a fully consenting participant in the experience.

For me, it’s not just about being dominant—it’s about creating a space where both parties can explore their desires openly and safely. This was something I had to navigate carefully, making sure we were both comfortable, and that his boundaries were respected. This particular man being a newbie and not being completely forthcoming with what he was looking for, this is where the conversation in the room became paramount. I laid the toybox out in front of him and requested him to pick out the toys he was happy to play with – done to the specificity of him not just saying “ohh pegging”, he selected the dildo and the pain play device. Once selected I placed these items beside us on the bed, placed the rest away – this was done in order to gain trust and show my intentions – I was only going to utilise what had been consented to within the session. Allowing him to relax and enjoy this session. I could have – yes – selected the toys myself and made it a surprise, but it was my first time meeting this person and he was shy about advocating for his wants, in the future or with a more experienced player I probably would have done all of that for them. his was about his awareness, too. I wanted to show him the boundaries while he was handing over control, so it was clear when he was ready to take it back. I had so much enjoyment playing out pegging, spanking and lightly humiliating this man throughout our time.

The Importance of Aftercare

One thing I really want to emphasise is the importance of aftercare. After the session, we took the time to cuddle and chat about our lives. It was a moment to reconnect and check in emotionally. I made sure to ask him about his boundaries and confirm that nothing had been crossed unintentionally. It’s vital that we address any concerns immediately, ensuring that I didn’t unknowingly breach any limits.

The experience was truly enjoyable, but what’s just as important as the session itself is the aftercare. Being given the dominant role in a session doesn’t mean that anything goes without question. It’s about consensually taking control of the situation, and ensuring that control is constantly checked and respected. The aftercare and communication afterwards—where both parties feel heard and respected—are arguably more crucial than the acts that take place during the session itself.

At the end of the day, this dynamic should always come from a place of care, respect, and a deep understanding of each other’s boundaries.

XX Barbie

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