The Power of Mood in Our Work: How One Client Can Change Everything
Ever walked into work, surrounded by the usual crowd of clients, only to find yourself sitting there twiddling your thumbs while everyone else is getting booked? It’s a frustrating experience, and more common than you might think. But why does it happen, and how much does your mood really impact your ability to work and earn? Let’s dive into the relationship between mood and work in our line of business.
Mood & Money: A Real Connection
Unlike most standard jobs where you can show up in any mood and still earn an hourly wage, our work is deeply tied to our ability to look and feel “on point” — cute, sexy, and confident. The truth is, our mood plays a massive role in how we show up for our clients. If we can’t get ourselves into the right headspace, we’re not going to be able to bring that energy that makes clients want to book us. It's as simple as that.
Sure, sometimes it only takes one client to turn the night around. A regular, or maybe just someone who takes a chance on us, can completely change the course of an evening. But there is a deeper layer to it. Take this story from Mrs. Langtrees, for example. She recalled a time when she went to the massage parlor (her place of work at the time) after a fight with her boyfriend. That bad mood carried over into her work, and she ended up having a disappointing night, only booked for standard massages instead of her usual clientele.
For many of us, the choice isn’t so easy. We don’t have the option to just give a standard massage — and honestly, most of us would probably prefer not to (or maybe that is just me). But I’ve had my own moments when my mood was a huge obstacle to making the kind of connection that keeps clients coming back.
The Night I Met Mr. Frog
Let me tell you about the night I met Mr. Frog (name changed for privacy, of course). It was a Sunday, and I was completely wiped out after a hectic weekend. The kind of weekend where clients test your patience, your personal life feels like it's piling up, and sleep is a distant memory. I think I’d gotten about five hours of sleep, tops.
I was in a don’t care mood. Mentally, I had already decided that my first client of the night had to be someone I found attractive and easy to talk to — a tall order, especially on a Sunday night at 6pm. Possible right?
Then in walks Mr. Frog. Reception appeared to know him and his friend, but I was already set on not engaging. I overheard someone say, “Oh, I’ll pop you over with Barbie, you’ll love her,” and my stomach sank. Small talk? Ugh. I wasn’t in the mood.
But here’s where things shifted: Mr. Frog and his friend sat down and asked me why I wasn’t drinking. I responded bluntly, “I don’t have one, you’re welcome to fix that.” So, of course, Mr. Frog grabs a bottle of champagne and pours me a glass.
Now, I felt a little obligated to be more conversational, but I decided I would make it on my own terms. And oddly enough, we started talking about some of the ridiculous things I’d done the night before — all the silly things my clients had said and done. We laughed over champagne, and I realised I wasn’t completely hating his company. In fact, I was starting to really enjoy it.
Mr. Frog asked me to join him for a booking, and I politely accepted. We ended up having an amazing time. The night turned around completely, and we’ve continued seeing each other. In fact, I’m excited to be back in March to see him again.
The Importance of Managing Your Mood
This story is a perfect reminder of how much a client’s mood can shape an experience—not just for them, but for everyone involved. If Mr. Frog had walked in with a bad attitude or if I hadn’t found a way to connect with him, we both would’ve missed out on something genuinely enjoyable. And in this industry, the energy you bring to the room can make all the difference.
Just like we take care of our bodies, keeping our moods in check is just as important. A client’s vibe sets the tone—walk in feeling tense or negative, and the whole experience can fall flat. But come in with an open mind, a little charm, and a willingness to enjoy the moment, and suddenly, everything shifts. Maybe it’s taking a deep breath before stepping inside, shaking off a stressful day, or simply remembering that a great connection can turn your whole night around.
So, next time you’re booking an experience, remember—your mood isn’t just yours, it’s contagious. Show up with good energy, and you might just walk away with a night to remember.
Author: Barbie Beach Babe
For: Langtrees.com
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