The Oxford Dictionary defines passion as a strong and barely controllable emotion. Just quietly there is actually a Catholic Saint of Passion however that relates to what is known as the Passion of Christ and to his execution by those dastardly Romans. That Saint Gemma Umberta Maria Galgani (12 March 1878 – 11 April 1903), also known as Gemma of Lucca, was an Italian mystic, canonized as a saint in the Catholic Church in 1940. She has been called the "daughter of the Passion" because of her profound imitation of the Passion of Christ. She is especially venerated in the Congregation of the Passion of Jesus (Passionists).
That however is not the passion that I am discussing. My reference to passion is of that emotion between a man and a woman, or between a man and a man or a woman and a woman. Because every now and then you might be lucky enough to find an intimate sexual partner who simply blows your socks off with her level of passion, the oven heat of her body, her trance like level of sexual excitement, her endless kisses, her moans of anticipation, and grunts of satisfaction, your mutual flooding of endorphins, her total immersion into the primal act of making love, giving and taking pleasure and never shy to vocalise that, and finally her desire or perhaps need to orgasm.
Let’s widen the definition of the word passion by reference to the word’s synonyms assisted by Gemini AI.
Synonyms that emphasize strong emotion:
My own experience over several decades is that a truly passionate lover is rare. I can think of three in my personal story of relationships. I was so lucky that my first love, she at 16 me at 17, was a truly passionate young woman. We as two young lovers shared the loss of virginity of each of us as a Christmas present to each other of all things. A furtive first coupling in a bedroom shared by her two little snoozing sisters. Through that lucky teenage relationship of a few precious years, we often laid for hours intertwined and trance like with the pleasure of it all. I still recall and have never experienced since, her feather touches down my tummy that had the muscles react in a rolling sensation
Then during a life of various sexual partners, I was again lucky enough that the woman I married was a passionate lover, at least initially. Sadly, though but perhaps not unusually so with the passage of time and of annoying the crap out of each other as our two lives sought and found other selfish interests, that passion changed until even affection eventually died, and then the marriage. Later came along another younger lover and once again I was sock-less. Each time we met to make love it was back to primal excitement, trance like pleasure, overwhelming feelings of love and of lust, hours of kissing. The relationship always consummated until life stuck its bloody sticky beak nose into our situation and she moved away to the far ends of the earth. Well Albany anyway.
However, a lesson was learned. I realised then that passion is not just the property of the young. It can be a lifelong search and an occasional find. In between those three passionate relationships I had others, some that whilst including a strong sex life excluded true passion. Having had relationships where kissing was missing it’s my belief that when you find that kisser prepared to smooch for hours in your embrace you usually find that passionate woman.
The French being…well French, even allow a passionate being a partial defence to actual murder as long as passion was involved at the time of the crime. Meta AI assists our understanding; “In French law and popular usage, "crimes of passion" (crimes passionnels) refer to violent crimes, particularly homicide, committed in the heat of passion, like sudden rage or jealousy, rather than premeditatedly. This concept has historical roots in France, particularly from the 19th century to the 1970s, and was once more widely understood in Latin American legal and social contexts”.
I guess the lesson that I have learned over the years that not every lover, even beautiful human beings with great bodies have passion. Sure, the sex might be good or even very good with all of the usual sensations and climatic relief involved in the act, but it’s just that true intense passion might be missing. Little signs might be observed such as one lover who never closed her eyes. In the throes of the act, it was extremely disconcerting to open my eyes and see her staring back at me.
I think the second lesson is that to experience mind blowing passion you need to be in love not just in like. From my experience a one-night stand type of situation was rarely passionate. Sure, they could be exciting, but the mutual intensity was not grounded yet in love. Although who amongst us have not stupidly muttered “I love you” to a virtual stranger met and bedded for the first time.
In fact Meta AI says about the passion and love connection.
What are the two major forms of love?
The two major forms of love are passionate and companionate. Rationale: Passionate love is characterized by intense longing and emotional highs and lows, while companionate love is less intense and focuses on attachment, commitment, and intimacy.(7 July 2024).
Anyhoo I will go on my dash toward organ donation and then the crematorium thankful for having known truly passionate sexual partners. I wish you all passionate relationships that last the test of time. They are out there. For me the memories of those three women and our mutual passion might have to do me, but do not feel sorry for me because I did truly find passionate love.
Regards Magnum
(Passion Monkey)
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