We’ve all heard the terms ‘fetish’, ‘kink’ and ‘BDSM’, but what do they mean and are they different from each other? Do they all mean the same thing? While ‘kink sex’ and ‘fetish sex’ are often used interchangeably, they refer to different aspects of sexual fantasy, sexual expression, and the dynamic between two people in a relationship. The kink or the fetish themselves may or may not be sexual in nature. Regardless of whether you’re into a kink, a fetish or hardcore BDSM, consent is the most important factor in any situation. Speak to a Melbourne Independent or Melbourne Escorts to discover which of our advertisers offers the service you’re after.
Kink is something from which someone receives sexual gratification, but which is not necessary for them to do so. If you occasionally want to be spanked by your partner but being spanked is not necessary for you to achieve orgasm, then it’s a kink.
Common kinks include:
• Impact play
• Age play
• Bondage
• Voyeurism
• Exhibitionism
• Primal/ prey
• Denial
A fetish is something that MUST be involved in order for you to reach orgasm. You might need to be dressed in leather or be addressed as ‘Sir’ to get turned on or even to reach orgasm.
Common Fetishes include:
• Specific non-sexual body parts, such as feet
• Latex, leather, and rubber
• Dominatrix or Dominator
• Submissive
• Stilettoes/high heels
If any aspect of play is required for you to achieve sexual arousal or orgasm, it may be a fetish rather than a kink. Fetishes are perfectly healthy, as long as everyone involved has given consent.
BDSM stands for "Bondage Domination Sadism Masochism" and can best be described as a combination of kinks. ‘Bondage’ is the easiest to understand and involved being restrained in one way or another. ‘Domination’, often used interchangeable with the word ’Discipline’ involves the ‘submissive’ used interchangeable with the word ’Discipline’ involves the ‘submissive’ obeying the Dominant partner.
‘Sadism’ refers to the Marquis de Sade who wrote sexually explicit novels in the 18th century and involves inflicting pain on another for sexual gratification.
Masochism is where the person receiving pain is sexually gratified by doing so. In BDSM, safe words are of paramount importance. The most popular or commonly known of which, is the Traffic Light System.
Safe words are strict, sacred and must be obeyed. The traffic light system has been used in the kink world for decades. Just like a traffic light, the colours are red, yellow, and green. ‘Green’ means this is fine, carry on doing what you’re doing. ‘Yellow’ means this is close to my limit, slow down or go softer. ‘Red’ means stop immediately.
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